numbers game

When it comes to any type of dating, there is usually a numbers game element to it all. You have to meet a certain number of people, talk to a certain number of people, and yes, get rejected by a certain number of people before you find your fuck buddy at any given point in your life. This means that you have to put yourself out there and stay resilient in the face of all the rejections that you may face. This can be tough to do. We are wired to find rejection hard. I was once told that this was because when we lived in tribes, being rejected by your tribe equalled death. You could not...