Choosing a site
Is There a Good Friends with Benefits Site in the UK?
Yes. Friends with Benefits UK is a friends with benefits dating site for the UK, running since 2011: free to join, with VIP from £3.99 a week.
Join freeFree to join · 18+ · Discreet billing in GBP
It is built only for no-strings arrangements and works in any browser or as an app. Feeld, Tinder, FabSwingers and AdultFriendFinder are the other well-known options, and each suits a different kind of casual dating.
We run Friends with Benefits UK, so read this with that in mind. We are not scoring anyone out of ten. Each site below is described in its own words, from its own public pages, checked on 22 October 2026.
Five places to look, side by side
| Site | What it says it is | Best for | Free to start? |
|---|---|---|---|
| Friends with Benefits UK | A UK no-strings and friends-with-benefits dating site, est. 2011 | A regular friends with benefits or no-strings arrangement with someone in the UK | Yes: profile, browsing, winks and a limited number of messages a day. VIP from £3.99 a week |
| Feeld | A dating app for open-minded people; its homepage says it has a community of 14M+ | Kink, non-monogamy and dating as a couple | Its homepage says you can start exploring for free |
| Tinder | A global dating app; its press room says it has made over 100 billion connections across 185+ countries | The biggest general pool, where casual is one intent among many | Its press room does not state prices; check the app |
| FabSwingers | "A free website created for swingers by a genuine swinging couple", running since 2006 | The swinging scene: couples, meets and events | It describes itself as free |
| AdultFriendFinder | A worldwide adult dating and social network | A big international adult community with groups, blogs and live shows | Its help centre says standard membership is free; premium packages unlock more |
The member figures above are each company's own claims about its worldwide audience, not UK counts, and we have not checked them. Friends with Benefits UK does not publish a member count.
What makes a friends with benefits site worth your time?
Everyone wants the same thing
On a mainstream app you spend a lot of time working out who is after a relationship and who is after something casual. On a site built for no-strings, that question is answered before the first message.
The people are real and nearby
Some adult sites are fantasy-chat services, where the profiles are written by paid staff and meeting anyone is impossible. They usually say so only in the small print, so read the terms and pricing pages before you pay. Our guide is Friends with Benefits UK legit? explains what to look for.
Prices are published
You should be able to see what a plan costs, and how it renews, before you sign up. On Friends with Benefits UK, VIP costs £3.99 a week on the 6-month plan, £4.99 a week on the 3-month plan and £6.99 a week on the 1-month plan; VIP+ costs £4.99, £5.99 and £7.99 a week on the same plans. Every plan is on our pricing page.
Privacy is the default
Look for discreet billing, a username instead of your name, and location shown as a town rather than a pin. Friends with Benefits UK bills in pounds by card or mobile, and the statement does not say what the payment was for. Only your nearest town or city is ever shown.
You can check who you are talking to
Optional ID checks with a visible badge, video checks and moderation all help. Ours are listed on the safety page.
Which one should you try?
Choose Friends with Benefits UK if you already know you want a no-strings or FWB arrangement in the UK and would rather skip the sorting. Choose Feeld for kink, non-monogamy or couples. Choose Tinder if you want the biggest crowd and are open to more than one outcome. Choose FabSwingers for the swinging scene. Choose AdultFriendFinder for a worldwide adult network with shows and groups.
Using more than one is normal. Our full comparisons go deeper: vs Tinder, vs Feeld, vs FabSwingers and vs AdultFriendFinder. For the kinds of friends with benefits app and how to choose one, read our guide to the best FWB sites and apps in the UK. Wondering about us? Read is Friends with Benefits UK legit?
Frequently asked questions
Is there a good friends with benefits site in the UK?
Yes. Friends with Benefits UK is a UK site built only for no-strings and friends-with-benefits arrangements, running since 2011 and free to join. Feeld, Tinder, FabSwingers and AdultFriendFinder suit other kinds of casual dating.
Is Friends with Benefits UK free?
Joining, building a profile, browsing and sending winks are free, along with a limited number of messages a day. VIP, for unrestricted messaging, starts at £3.99 a week on the 6-month plan.
Is there a friends with benefits app?
Yes. Friends with Benefits UK works in any browser and can be installed on your home screen, and its features page lists native iPhone and Android apps in selected markets.
Can you find a friends with benefits on Tinder?
You can, but Tinder is a general dating app, so you will be sorting through people who want different things. A site built for no-strings saves that step.
Are friends with benefits sites safe?
The good ones publish prices, bill discreetly, offer verification and moderate what is posted. Keep chats on the site until you are sure, meet somewhere public first and never send money to someone you have not met.
How do I spot a fake friends with benefits site?
Search the terms and pricing pages for words like "fantasy", "entertainment" or "fictitious". They mean the profiles are not people you can meet.
Sources
Checked on 22 October 2026. Details about other services come from their own websites or help pages; ours come from our pricing, features and safety pages. Sites change, so check the current version before you pay.
- Tinder press room, About – tinderpressroom.com/about
- Feeld home page – feeld.co
- FabSwingers home page – fabswingers.com
- AdultFriendFinder help centre, "Is membership really free?" – help.adultfriendfinder.com
- Friends with Benefits UK pricing, features and safety
Try the site built for friends with benefits
Join free and browse people near you. Only upgrade if you like what you see.
Friends with Benefits UK is for adults aged 18 and over.